Ruined Orgasm Phone Sex: How It Works With Tease And Denial

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Heyyyyyy, guys! Today’s blog is about ruined orgasm phone sex. So strap in! It might be a wild ride, lol. You can certainly never tell with me, can you? I enjoy inducing whiplash. 😉

Anyway, yes, ruined orgasm phone sex. It can be both a thing by itself and a means to an end, and I use it both ways. Sometimes, I’m just in the mood to ruin an orgasm, so I do. The end. Period. But sometimes, I feel a little more sadistic than that, so I drag it out with orgasm edging phone sex and really build up the idea of me letting you cum at the end…and then I ruin it, after all, lol!

Incorporating Ruined Orgasms Into Tease And Denial

As you probably already know pretty well, I adore tease and denial phone sex. Sometimes, I’m nice about it and only make the denial last for a certain period of time. Call that tease and delay, if you like. Other times, I just straight-up won’t let you cum at all and send you to bed with blue balls.

But one thing I like to do that I think a lot of Mistresses don’t necessarily do is use ruined orgasm phone sex in conjunction with tease and denial. I mean, think about it. If I ruin your orgasm (or, more accurately, have you do it for me), then you’re still not satisfied. You’re still longing for release in the same way you would be if I sent you to bed without an orgasm at all.

Remember the old movie Bedazzled? It’s older than I am, but my mom loved it, so I’ve seen it several times. Anywhere, it’s where Liz Hurley plays the devil. When I ruin an orgasm, I always picture myself as her in that movie because, yes, I am technically giving you an orgasm, like I promised. It’s just not a very good one, lolololol!

Ruined Orgasm Phone Sex Increases Submissiveness

Something I’ve learned about ruining orgasms over the years is that a ruined one really increases a guy’s sense of submissiveness to his favorite bratty Domme phone sex Goddess. Denial can do the same thing, but I find that ruined orgasms seem to actually work better for this purpose.

I’m not exactly sure why this is, but I have some thoughts on the subject. I think that “Be careful what you wish for” is a valuable lesson to teach someone. Letting them think they’re going to be able to cum and then pulling the rug out from under them at the last minute with ruined orgasm phone sex shows them that *I* am the one in control at all times. If I want to let you actually cum, I will, but if it amuses me to ruin it, I’ll do that, too. And I think that sense of helplessness really increases a man’s submissiveness because the unpredictability of it all makes it more exciting!

What do you think?

Come And Try Your Luck

Of course, with tease and denial, you never know what you might get. I might let you cum for real. I might not let you cum at all. Or I might just give you the ruined orgasm phone sex experience you so desperately need, even though you may not know it yet!

So why don’t you come and try your luck with me, your cock teasing phone sex Princess, Kylie? All you have to do is just click one of the buttons below to give me a call. And I promise you, you’ll be so happy you did! I can’t wait to hear from you, so go ahead and start clicking!

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Ruined Orgasm Phone Sex: The Happy Medium!

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So let’s talk about the ever-exciting topic of ruined orgasm phone sex today! As I mentioned below in my long post on tease and denial phone sex, ruined orgasms serve as a happy medium between complete denial–which, over time, is not healthy for your prostate, guys–and actually letting you get off and have a satisfying, fulfilling orgasm.

Ruined orgasms fall under the umbrella topic of cock control phone sex. And cock control is one of my favorite topics because it also includes other favorites, like tease and denial, tease and delay, and, of course, edging.

But the reason ruined orgasms falls under the cock control umbrella is quite simple. It’s not in a man’s nature to ruin his own orgasm, unless someone stronger than he is has control over his cock and tells him to. And that someone, of course, is me!

The thing about ruined orgasm phone sex is that it’s very powerful. Denial, you just sort of resign yourself to once you’re told not to let yourself cum. No matter how many times you edge, in the back of your mind, you know you’re not going to be able to cum, so you can sort of just discard that thought.

Ruined orgasms, on the other hand, you can’t really just get over like that. They’re always devastating because you are SO CLOSE to having a *real* orgasm…yet so far away. That’s why they’re so entertaining for me, too!

So if you would like to try your hand at the cock control roulette game I like to play and see if you’ll win denial, orgasm, or ruined orgasm phone sex, then why not give me, Kylie, a call by clicking one of the buttons below? I can’t wait to play with you!

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Tease And Denial Phone Sex: The Psychology Behind It

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So let’s talk about tease and denial phone sex today. But first, there is a little something I’d like to address.

Now, I know that a lot of times, I come across as your typical shallow, vapid sorority girl. And maybe in a lot of ways, I am. But in other ways, I’m definitely not! It just suits me to allow men to think I’m stupid because it’s a lot more shocking when I snatch the rug out from under them later.

But the truth is, I make really good grades, and I’m really dedicated to my studies. I major in Psychology, and I want to get my PhD at some point.

Tease And Denial Phone Sex In Psychological Terms

So it only makes sense that I sometimes think of tease and denial phone sex in psychological terms. My psych program is very heavily steeped in behaviorism, and those are the terms in which I think of cock teasing phone sex.

Now, in order to produce the best experience for tease and denial, there has to be some uncertainty there. If you know for a fact that I’m going to deny you every time, you know there’s no point in getting too worked up. And that’s BORING. So if I occasionally let you cum, then that introduces a bit of uncertainty into the equation. You know I’m *probably* going to deny you, but there’s the possibility that I might not. That makes things a lot more interesting.

How Ruined Orgasms Make It Even More Interesting

And then there’s ruined orgasm phone sex to consider. It occupies an interesting middle ground between letting you cum and complete denial. It lets you technically get off, but the resulting orgasm is so unfulfilling that you might as well not have.

So that makes three options for what happens during a prick teasing phone sex session. I could let you cum for real. I could ruin your orgasm. Or I could deny you altogether.

Intermittent Reinforcement

This is something that’s known as intermittent reinforcement. It means that I *sometimes* reward you for your behavior, which is, of course, stroking for me and getting your hopes up that I’ll let you get off. I don’t do it at any steady rate, no particular time or anything like that. Just…whenever I feel like it.

The thing about intermittent reinforcement is, it is nearly impossible to extinguish a behavior that is conditioned by intermittent reinforcement. Which means your ass will be jacking it and hoping for an orgasm FOREVER! And that’s just the way I want it!

So if what you’re looking for is long-term tease and denial phone sex mixed with a sort of Russian cum roulette, then I am the person you need to speak with. Just click one of the buttons below to give me, Kylie, your bratty Domme phone sex coed and friendly local psychology student a call. You won’t regret it!

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